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Thanks for making the time to answer my question so thoughtfully Linds! I love this, it helps a lot. I'm 32 and definitely feel like I'm entering that threshold moving from friends of convenience/youth to new connections. You've given me lots to think about and try out, and yet I also appreciate the reminder to be patient with the process and to keep being myself. Good things take time. I'm also glad to know that when you're asked for these kinds of hangs yourself, you appreciate people being curious about you! That helps me reframe this from "I'm scared to bother people," to maybe I can just be curious about them in a genuine way and see what happens. Thanks again xo

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